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Why Baha'i

Veronica Fairchild
Sun Valley, Nevada
Baha'i since 2004


I was born and raised Mormon. I attended until I was about 17, but stopped attending because the church wasn’t treating my family the way I thought Jesus would treat His brothers and sisters.

I also was told to break up with the guy I was seeing because he was not Mormon. I left the church and was very angry with God for about four years. I wanted nothing to do with religion or spirituality. It was a very dark time in my life, because I felt that I had been taught these principles; the same principles that everyone else was being taught, but nobody was following them. I felt betrayed. I wanted to be a part of something that could accept people for who they are, no matter what their religion, race or economic status.

Veronica Fairchild
Veronica Fairchild
On May 11, 2004, I was at a birthday party where some of my friends were having a religious discussion. I was about to go to another room when my best friend at the time, who had just become a Baha'i, started getting picked on by a couple of people.

They tried to pick apart her beliefs, but they couldn't do it. She had a logical answer for every question they threw at her. Instantly, I was intrigued. I wanted to know more about this religion that I had never heard of and that made so much sense.

Throughout June, I devoured any piece of literature she could give me about the Baha'i Faith. I asked so many questions, I thought she would tell me to stop. She never did. I learned about progressive revelation, which is the belief that all of the world religions are saying the same thing to different people at different times for the advancement of humanity. Immediately, that stuck with me.

In July I went on a cross-country road trip. Every time I saw a star, I found myself counting the points, to see if they totaled nine (the nine-pointed star is commonly used by Baha'is as a symbol of their Faith). I drove by a building in Washington D.C. that had Arabic writing on the walls, and I wondered if it was a Baha'i Center, since I knew that the Faith originated in Persia (now Iran).

The “final straw” was in Atlanta. I had just walked out of Turner Field and saw people standing in the parking lots, holding up signs with pictures of Christ on the cross and signs asking if we were saved. One sign said, "He will return. Are you ready?" The first thought that came to my mind was, "He already came."*

It was a huge shock to me, because I hadn't even thought about the Baha'i Faith for a few weeks, and then all of a sudden, there was this knowledge. It bothered me because I have never been as sure of something as I was about this fact. And I don't make big decisions without serious research.

So I came home and called my friend. I told her what had happened and that I wanted to be around more Baha'is to make sure that I had all the information.

In August, my friend and I went to Bosch Baha'i School near Santa Cruz, Calif., for a seeker's and new believer's weekend program. I asked them all as many questions as I could think of. I met a youth who was doing his Year of Service (an option for college-age Baha'is), and he recommended that I read Preparing for Christ's New Name, a Baha'i booklet that explains how Baha’u’llah fulfills Christ's prophecies.

I read it in two hours. Everyone I encountered at the school was kind and polite, and patient with me and my questions. When we got home, I told my friend, "Okay, that was a school. They have to be nice. It's their job. I want you to take me to the most mundane, boring thing Baha'is do. I want to see normal Baha'is around here."

In September, my friend took me a cluster reflection meeting (a regular gathering of Baha'is in a particular area who discuss how to share the Baha’i Faith with others). Everyone I met was nice and introduced themselves. They offered me tea, and I was welcomed and accepted for who I am. I decided to become a Baha'i then and there.

The sense of community I felt was amazing. I saw people living up to the standards of the Baha'i Faith and a diversity of people I had never seen before. I saw interracial couples, women running the meeting and a relaxed atmosphere that said “no pressure.”

I've been in love with this Faith ever since.


* Baha’is believe that Baha’u’llah is the one promised in all the scriptures of the past, the “Desire of all nations,” the “King of Glory.” To Judaism He is “Lord of Hosts”; to Christianity, the Return of Christ in the glory of the Father; to Islam, the “Great Announcement”; to Buddhism, the Maitreya Buddha; to Hinduism, the new incarnation of Krishna; to Zoroastrianism, the advent of “Sháh-Bahrám.”

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Why I'm a Baha'i

Welcome Veronica Fairchild! I had to laugh when I read that she counted the points on the stars. I think that is one of the first habits I picked up as a New Baha'i. ~One sign said, "He will return. Are you ready?" The first thought that came to my mind was, "He already came."*~ My thought exactly, I think to myself, if they only knew...and... Boy, Have they missed the boat... On a note about this section of articles. Reading 'Why Baha'i' keeps my own experience fresh in my mind. I am told that the 12 step groups have this method of "keeping It Green" when telling the story of their addictions... This is the way for Baha'i to "Keep it Green" Thank you for sharing your story, Veronica! B.J. Lee Desert Rose, Eloy, Az

new Baha'i - welcome!

I loved your story, and I'm so happy you found the Faith!!! I became disenchanted with the Baptist church for similar and various reasons, so I went searching in all areas of religions, knowing in my deepest heart there was "something" more, I just didn't know what. I couldn't find "it" anywhere!!! When my future husband took me to meet his family in Arizona, his dad got me up at 6:00 a.m., started drawing diagrams on a flip chart and telling me all kinds of stuff that wasn't registering in my as-yet caffeine-deprived sleepy brain. Couldn't make heads or tails out of what he was talking about! When it came time to return to California, Mom says "Let's have a round of prayers before you go." And I thought, "Man, oh man! Religious fanatics! Oh well, go with the flow and get 'er done." They told me to just let the book fall open, the appropriate prayer would be there. (Yeah, right!) Anyway, I did as was suggested. The more I read about being created 'from the same original parents', the more excited I became, the faster I read, the louder I read until, in the middle of the prayer, I was asking them "Do you KNOW what this says? Have you read this?!!!" And I was dancing and hollering to beat the band, I was so excited! In my heart, I became a Baha'i on the spot! I've been to Bosch Baha'i School several times and my girls have attended as well. Such a lovely facility! I'm so happy for you and your soul! I hope we meet some day on this plane. If you went to Bosch, you can't be too far away. I live in Oakhurst, near the South entrance to Yosemite. Hugs, Sunny Scroggins

Welcome

I became a Baha'i in 1981 from my best friend who went thought Native Prophecies with me because I am a Choctaw. I then read Bill Sears book, "Thief in the Night". I teach almost everyday and work with homeless people with my little dog Moja. He replaced Sappa Chappa my female dog who reached 16 years before coming down with cancer.

I often meet Elders of the Mormon Faith and explain the prophecies he (Joseph Smith) had about the two time periods of 1844, 1863, the name of Glory of God and that he would be a mere man and would wear a red robe. Smith also said if he lived to be 85 he could see the glory of god and that would be the year 1890 which was the first year Baha'u'llah was allowed to see anyone from the West. These facts do not impress many Mormons but I met one today that was open and amazed. Good luck and we need help teaching Mormons. David Lewis

I also have written a book on the Prophecies but also guide you to Hushidar Motlagh at globeperspective.org He offers discounts on books that explain the 1800 second coming Scriptures better than anyone. Call him on his 1-800 number posted on his website

Welcome to the Faith!!

Welcome to the Faith!! Welcome!!! Shahram Moosavi

another one-welcome

well, when u r done with your Ruhi[s] and if u r adventurous to look east [not as in Florida or New York] further further east to Malaysia / Singapore / Vietnam and to share with us your spiritual journey and to help out in the institute process, let us know.

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